It's ok. Really, it is. You don't need to know the answers to the world. You don't need to stress about the future. The future will happen, whether or not you get worked up about it. And while you're at it, don't be in such a rush to grow up. Take your time and enjoy it. Live dangerously and have some fun. The responsibility will still be there later on.
Don't worry about getting your heart broken. Yes you've been with him for years but he really isn't the right guy for you. It will take you a few years and yes, more heart breaks before you find someone who's right for you. But never be afraid to be alone. You will get to that point I promise.
Find things that you love to do. And do them well. It will take you awhile before you find a career that you love. Yes, you will fail, but you will also succeed. As the saying goes, dust yourself and try again.
PLEASE learn more about style. Even in your twenties you still have no idea and dress like a slob 9/10 times!
If I only had one thing I could tell you, save your pennies! Adapt a no-shopping life, and for gods sake, stay away from credit cards and personal loans!
Finally, believe in yourself. You CAN do it, you ARE smart and you only need to apply yourself to whatever it is you are doing to succeed. Work hard, play harder and be good to your family and friends because you will need their support one day.
Sincerely,
Twenty-something year old you.
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| A 17-year-old me |
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Aww sweet.. Its funny how we see so much more on hindsight! Even though we cant turn back time, i guess all those bumps along the way play a part in moulding who we r today :)
ReplyDeleteIf only I saw then what I have seen now! I have learned so many lessons and yes, they have shaped who I am today, but geez I have certainly learned the hard way!
DeleteChrissie xx
this was beautiful! I loved the line about the future coming, regardless of if you get worked up about it... its so true, and defintiely one i need to remember!
ReplyDeleteThat is something I still need to remind myself of at times. I love it though, as it is so true. If it is meant to be, it will be, whether you stress about it or not so save yourself the worry!
DeleteChrissie xx
Such a lovely letter to write back to yourself. Indeed, so much to learn on hindsight.
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Thankyou! There really was a lot of lessons. Sadly I have learned most of them in the last 12 months.
DeleteChrissie xx
what a great letter.. so lovely!
ReplyDeleteThanks Hun, Just felt the need to tell myself, even if I couldn't actually read it!
DeleteChrissie xx
That was gorgeous, Chrissie! The great thing about writing letters like this is that it helps you put perspective on who you are today. You have a great things ahead of you, gorgeous girl. I can feel it xxx
ReplyDeleteThanks so much Lovely! I am so excited for the coming months and wish I could share more but can't just yet! There certainly is great things coming!
DeleteChrissie xx
Wise words! Especially the don't fret line - it took me til my 30s to stop stressing and really could have done with learning that lesson earlier. That said, I doubt I'd have listened much when I was a stubborn 17-yr-old!
ReplyDeleteYou always thought you knew everything back then hey? I know I did. I was in such a hurry to grow up I didn't actually think to you know, grow up. At least not emotionally.
DeleteChrissie xx
Beautiful letter. I would also tell myself to develop style and save my money! Funny what we would say in hindsight. :)
ReplyDeleteI am still terrible with my money! Probably why I'm living at home with my folks instead of Munchkin and I having our own space. And style? Ugh I am so over hoodies and ugg boots!
DeleteChrissie xx
Very nice Chrissie! Love that you've advised yourself to try and be more stylish hahaha. Hindsight is 20/20 isn't it ;-) xx
ReplyDeleteI still can't decide what looks good on me and what sort of look I'm going for. Hopefully I'll get there one day!
DeleteChrissie xx
wow thats powerful hun! :) Such a nice post!! and hey theres nothing wrong with dressing like a slob, fellow slob here hehehehe :D
ReplyDeleteHaha I have no idea how I attracted Mr M! Hopefully with the weather warming up we might both be a little more inclined to dress a little nicer :) I don't even know what's in fashion anymore!
DeleteChrissie xx
There are so many things I wish I could have told 17 year old me. But maybe we need to go through the hard times to pressure the real us into becoming whole.
ReplyDeleteI agree, these experiences have certainly made me into the person I am today, though it would be nice if I could've given myself some advice, even if I wouldn't have listened to it!
DeleteChrissie xx